Our Folded Hands

Women helping Women. Reaching out to the Sister who still suffers. Helping each other through the Good times and the Difficult times. To get to the SOBER way of life, One Day at a Time.

Keep it Simple

Whoever gossips to you will gossip about you. —Spanish proverb—

Gossip can kill the trust in a Twelve Step program. We all need to feel safe when we share our personal lives with others. We need to know our private business won’t spread around.We can do two things to help keep the trust in our groups, and in the rest of our lives too. First, don’t gossip. Second, don’t listen to gossip about others. 

Prayer for the Day:  Higher Power, help me mind my own business today. Help me honor the trust of my friends by not gossiping.

Action for the Day:  Today, I’ll think of two ways to stop someone from telling me gossip. Then, I’ll put those ways to use.